Referee. Hall monitor. Manner police. Supporting our kids through their challenges together can feel like we’re wearing a bunch of crazy-ass hats, and their constant antics push us to yell, threaten, judge and issue consequences. Join us this week to explore a few common moments of sibling conflict that drive us all bonkers -- a toddler hitting the new baby, a 4 yr old fighting with their smaller sib and 8 yr old twins verbally abusing one another!
We’ll discuss ways we’re leaning in to sensitively support the sibling relationship towards higher emotional intelligence, elevated conflict resolution skills and a solid long-term friendship. The hard stuff is the good stuff. We laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us!
Relevant Links + resources that informed this episode:
- Upbringing’s Freedoms Model- Upbringing’s RESIST Approach- Upbringing’s FREE TO FEEL podcast episode- Upbringing’s FREE TO FEEL Q&A episode- Siblings Without Rivalry, by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish- Self-regulation / Co-regulation- It’s OK Not To Share, by Heather Shumaker- How Toddlers Thrive, by Tovah P. Klein- Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne- Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman- Raising Humans by Ross Greene- De-Escalate by Douglas E. Noll- Now Say This by Julie Wright and Heather Sturgeon- The Whole-Brain Child- Dan Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson- The Good News About Bad Behavior by Katherine Reynolds-Lewis- Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B Rosenburg- Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist- Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer- Alex Olavarria, our producer, conductor, editor + husband/brother in law
Today’s episode is supported by A Kid’s Book About- a collection of beautifully designed books that kickstart challenging and empowering conversations between kids and their grownups.
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